Main kyu nhi“Main Kyun Nahi?” (Why Not Me?) — Yeh ek aisa sawal hai jo har us insaan ke dil me kabhi na kabhi zaroor uthta hai jo life me kuch bada karna chahta hai.
Jab hum dekhte hain ki koi aur sales me top kar raha hai, kisi ka business (Deva Readers Hub ki tarah) grow ho raha hai, ya 12th Fail ke Manoj Kumar Sharma ki tarah koi ekdum neeche se uthkar IPS ban raha hai… toh hamara “Man” andar se cheekh kar poochta hai: “Agar vo kar sakta hai, toh main kyun nahi? Mujhme kya kami hai?”
Main aapko ek peer (dost) ki tarah bilkul seedhe aur sachae ke sath batata hoon—Aap me koi kami nahi hai. Aur iska jawab hai: “Haan, aap bhi kar sakte hain!”
Lekin is “Main kyun nahi?” ko haqeeqat me badalne ke liye aapko 3 baatein samajhni hongi:
1. Fark Soch Ka Hai, Taakat Ka Nahi
Duniya me jo log safal hote hain, unke paas koi extra dimaag ya 26 ghante nahi hote. Unke paas hota hai ek sahi Mindset.
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Gareeb mindset (jaise Rich Dad Poor Dad me bataya gaya hai) sochta hai: “Main yeh nahi kar sakta.” (Yeh soch dimaag ko band kar deti hai).
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Ameer aur safal mindset sochta hai: “Main yeh kaise kar sakta hoon?” (Yeh sawal dimaag ko activate karta hai aur raste dikhata hai).
2. “Visualization” Ko Action Me Badlo
Aapne sapne dekhe hain, aapne dhyan lagaya hai, aur aapko pata hai ki aapko kahan pahunchna hai. Lekin sirf dimaag me tasveer banane se baat nahi banegi. Safal log tab bhi kaam karte hain jab unka mood nahi hota. 12 Rules for Life ka sabse bada niyam yahi hai ki life ke chaos (bhatkan) ko khatam karne ke liye roz ka ek anushasan (discipline) chahiye.
3. Apne “Man” Ke Boss Baniye
Bohot baar hamara man humein kehta hai—“Chalo aaj chhod dete hain, kal se calling karenge, kal se marketing seekhenge.” Jab aap man ki baat sun lete hain, toh aap peeche chhoot jaate hain. Agli baar jab man aalas kare, toh use bolo: “Agle 1 ghante sirf kaam hoga, baaki baatein baad me.”
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